fix(folder_library): re-window on resize and on show/hide (PR #967 review)

CodeRabbit caught two real bugs in the first pass. Both are mine.

1. GRID RESIZE. perRow and rows were captured once when the list was filled, but
   paint() also runs on resize — and resizing changes the grid's column count.
   The window maths then sliced against the OLD column count: wrong songs on
   screen, and padding sized for a row count the layout no longer had (so the
   scrollbar lied). metrics() now recomputes perRow/itemH/rows together on every
   paint, so the geometry can never disagree with itself.

2. STALE WINDOWS ON SHOW/HIDE. paint() only ran on scroll and resize. Expanding
   or collapsing any section moves every list below it, and a windowed list's
   contents are a function of its POSITION — so those lists kept the window from
   their old position and showed blank padding where songs should be until the
   user happened to scroll. Both toggles now call _repaintVirtualLists().
   Re-opening an already-populated section had the same flaw.

   Collapsed lists also kept doing layout work on every scroll tick. paint() now
   bails early when the list is display:none or detached, and forgets its last
   window so re-showing repaints from scratch instead of short-circuiting on a
   stale memo.

Tests: grid re-window on a column-count change, the padding+rendered=rows
invariant at two different perRow values, and a test that PINS THE FAILURE MODE —
a mismatched perRow/rows pair must not silently look correct. 12/12.
Re-validated the DOM glue in real Chromium with 50k rows (25-31 rows rendered,
scroll height exact). eslint clean; JS 1189/1189; pytest 2597 passed.

CHANGELOG entry added (also flagged).

CHANGELOG.md

@@ -46,6 +46,14 @@ and this project adheres to [Semantic Versioning](https://semver.org/spec/v2.0.0
   carry their gig log; instruments their gig count.
 
 ### Changed
+- **Folder library renders only the songs on screen** (#965) — a song list used to
+  render *every* song it held. On a flat 50,944-song library that was one `<div>`
+  with 50,938 children and ~1.3 **million** DOM nodes (~4.2 GB of renderer memory),
+  built even while another screen was showing. A document that size also punishes
+  unrelated code: any `document.querySelector` that misses has to walk the whole
+  tree — which is how the song-preview menu check ended up eating ~50% of the
+  renderer and dropping the app to 2.7 fps. Lists longer than 200 songs are now
+  windowed (25–31 rows in the DOM instead of 50,000); shorter lists are unchanged.
 - **The full mix is a stem** (#933) — core no longer depends on `original_audio:`, a
   top-level manifest key this repo invented (#583) that the feedpak spec never had.
   The format already carried the pre-separation mixdown as a stem; feedpak 1.15.0